'Bakin ciki shine yanayin TikTok'

Mujallun Beauty sun taɓa koya wa masu karatu yadda ake amfani da kayan shafa don ɓoye wani kukan da aka yi kwanan nan.Amma yanzu, dayaTikTokyanayin yana ƙarfafa mu mu rungumar waɗancan idanuwan hazo da jajayen hanci."Crying makeup," ga alama, yana ciki.

A cikin faifan faifan bidiyo wanda ya sami sha'awa sama da 507,000, mahaliccin abun ciki na Boston Zoe Kim Kenealy yana ba da koyawa "ga 'yan mata marasa kwanciyar hankali" don cimma kamannin kukan sabo koda "idan ba ku da halin yin kuka".

Ta fara da sheki mai sheki don "mai kumbura, laushi, lebe", sannan ta shafa jajayen inuwa a kusa da idanu, sannan ta shafa.kyalkyali eyelinerkewaye fuskarta don wani "haske"."Ina so in ga kamar ina kuka koyaushe," wani mai kallo yayi sharhi."Ina jin dadi sosai bayan na yi kuka," in ji wani."Ba zan iya sanin ko lallashin ido ne ko jan hanci ba."

Kenealy, wacce ke da shekaru 26 kuma tana da mabiyan TikTok 119,000, ta gaya wa Guardian cewa ta sami wahayi ne daga yanayin kayan shafa na gabashin Asiya guda biyu: Douyin da Ulzzang.Duk nau'ikan nau'ikan biyu sun haɗa da ɗimbin blush, kyalkyali da haskaka yankin ƙarƙashin ido don tasirin kerubic gabaɗaya.

Kenealy ya ce: "An yi wahayi ne daga kyaftawar ido da kuke samu bayan kuka," in ji Kenealy.Ta jaddada kallon kyan gani ne kawai, ba rashin gaskiya ba."Mutane - akasari maza - suna yin tsokaci kan 'Amber Heard' akan bidiyon na," in ji ta, yayin da take magana kan gungun magoya bayan Johnny Depp TikTok wadanda suka yi imanin tsohuwar matarsa ​​ta yi kukan karya a kan tuhume-tuhumen da ake yi masa.“Kallon kayan shafa ne ba lallai sai na sa a waje ba.Ba a yi nufin yaudarar kowa ba.”

Bacin rai, ko aƙalla aikin sa, yana kan TikTok - mai yiwuwa saboda yana ko'ina cikin ainihin duniya, ma.A cikin Zaɓen Matasa na Harvard na 2021, fiye da rabin matasan Amurkawa sun ce sun ji "ƙasa, tawaya, ko rashin bege" a cikin kwanaki bakwai da suka gabata.

Kuma a zamanin yake-yake na duniya, wariyar launin fata, da rikicin yanayi da ba a kula da shi ba da kuma kadaici, jan lebe mai sauki bai isa ba.Madadin haka, yanayin kyau ya fito don dacewa da rashin lafiyar yau.Akwai "pout dissociative", wanda iD ya kira "lobotomy-chic, matattu-sa ido" kanwar ga lebban duck mai wucewa wanda ke da masu tasiri na 2010s a cikin shake.Kuna iya ganin ta a cikin posting-kamar tsana akan layi na Euphoria's breakout waif Chloe Cherry, ko kallon sararin samaniya akan shafin Olivia Rodrigo na Instagram.

Duk wani tafiya zai iya zama #SadGirlWalk idan kun saurari Lana Del Rey kuma ku yi dogon kallo daga nesa.Hashtag mai dauke da ra'ayoyi sama da 504,000, yana dauke da bidiyo na 'yan mata da suke kallon sosae yayin da suke jujjuya latti da kuma nuna kayan su."Bari in yi kuka ga Taylor Swift yayin tafiya har sai ba zan iya ba," wani mai amfani ya yi sharhi game da shirin su.

Fredrika Thelandersson, mai bincike na gaba da digiri a fannin watsa labarai da nazarin sadarwa a Jami'ar Lund ta Sweden kuma marubucin sabon littafin 21st Century Media and Female Mental Health, yana nazarin al'adun 'yan mata na kan layi da al'ummomi.

"A cikin yanayin da ake ciki na yanzu, mashahurai da alamu suna so su sami sahihanci, don bayyana ainihin," in ji ta.“Hanya daya da za a yi haka ita ce bayyana cutar ko kuma bayyana rauni.A zahiri yana da fa'ida don nuna wani nau'in rauni."

Wannan yana raguwa ta hanyar TikTok, in ji Thelandersson, yana lalata ma'anar likitanci da harshe na tunani."Rarrabuwa alama ce ta PTSD, kuma yanzu ana ɗaukar ta azaman kayan ado," in ji ta."Wannan yana faɗi da yawa game da yadda mutane ba sa yin kyau a yanzu kuma suna buƙatar tallafi, kuma kafofin watsa labarun sun zama wurin da za su iya samun abin da ba za su samu ba daga tsarin kiwon lafiya na gargajiya."

Kuma idan wani yana faking bakin ciki tare da faux hawaye ko kuma wani m, nesa nesa?

"Wataƙila yana yin baƙin ciki ne, amma akwai yanayin gama gari lokacin da kuka gane cewa sauran mutane suna ji iri ɗaya, kuma wannan wani nau'in nasa ne," in ji Thelandersson."Kuna iya yin ba'a da hakan gwargwadon yadda kuke so, amma har yanzu yana da kyakkyawan fata ta wata hanya."

Gen Z ba shine farkon ƙarni na farko da ya gano abin sha'awar share fage ba - gumakan Gen X kamar Fiona Apple, Courtney Love da marigayi Elizabeth Wurtzel duk sun yi sana'a a cikin 90s.Marubuciya Emily Gould ta fara farawa a farkon-aughts bunƙasa rubutun ra'ayin kanka a yanar gizo, tare da shigar da ƙarairayi wanda galibi ya faɗi cikin rukunin ƙauna-ƙiyayya.Emo yana aiki kamar Paramore da My Chemical Romance sun mamaye ginshiƙan kiɗa na 2010s, tare da waƙoƙin ikirari da kamannin goth mai kusa da bangs na gefe da kayan shafa mai duhu.

Audrey Wollen, marubucin wanda ya kirkiro kalmar "Theory Girl" a cikin 2014, ya sami shaharar intanet ta hanyar shawararta cewa yin baƙin ciki a bainar jama'a shine halastaccen nau'i na zanga-zangar adawa da kabilanci (ko da yake Wollen's archetype na yarinyar Tumblr na yau da kullun akan layi ana nuna shi zuwa ga zama fari, sirara, mai ban sha'awa na al'ada kuma mai zaman kansa).

Amma a wannan karon, babban abin da TikTok ya samu (kusan masu amfani da biliyan 1 a cikin ƙasashe 150) suna taimakawa yanayin yaɗuwa cikin ƙimar da ba a taɓa gani ba."Ina tsammanin wasu daga cikin waɗannan matasa ne kawai ke da damar shiga intanet," in ji marubucin kyawun InStyle Tamim Alnuweiri."Lokacin da nake matashi, na kuma makale kaina a kan taga kuma na yi kamar ina cikin bidiyon kiɗa lokacin da ake ruwan sama, amma fasalinsu ya fi kowa."

Kelly Cutrone, almara na PR wanda ya kafa kamfanin juyin juya halin jama'a kuma ya bayyana a kan The Hills, The City and America's Next Top Model, ya taɓa rubuta littafin shawarwarin aiki mai suna Idan Kuna Yi kuka, Ku Fice."Ya koya wa mutane yadda za su magance motsin zuciyar su a wurin aiki," in ji ta."Abin takaici ne cewa bakin ciki zai zama wani yanayi.Amma ina da ɗan shekara 20, kuma waɗannan yaran duk sun shiga jahannama [a lokacin bala'in]."

Cutrone ta ƙirƙira nata kalmar don kwatanta yaran da take gani a cikin kulake kwanan nan: "Soyayyar dare".Ka yi tunanin "Aljanin duhu mala'ika vibes: rabin-tsirara yara da suka yi kama da strung fita, tare da wadannan m, kallon kallo".

Sun kasance “halittun dare”, Cutrone ya kara da cewa, yana kashe Julia Fox, masoyiyar sa ido mai ido wacce aka saba gani tana yawo a titunan birnin New York sanye da kananan kaya na jeans, Balenciaga bodysuits, da yadudduka na kauri baki mai ido."Tana da wannan ikon 'yan matan da ke zuwa abubuwan da nake yi a wasu lokuta kuma su ne 'yan mata," in ji Cutrone."'Yan matan ba Twiggy ba ne: Elvira ne."